Banish 4 Thoughts That Keep You Struggling – from guest blogger Ann Convery of Revenue Reflex

Hi,

Are you sick of “struggle mode”?

Do you know who’s keeping it in place?

Last night I was on a gorgeous horse farm in Ojai,
eating a piece of vegan chocolate cake.

OK, I ate two pieces.

And thinking about letting go of struggle.

I watched the sun disappear over the mountains and thought about why life and my business have changed so much in the last 12 months.

They changed because I changed.

My thoughts changed.

Here are some of the sabotaging thoughts my clients and I
demolished.

Because they hold you back.

And we got tired of waiting.

How about you?

4 Thoughts That Keep You in Struggle 

1. “The problem is..”  

This means you aren’t looking at possible solutions.
You’re focusing on the problem.

You may think:  “Of course I’m focusing on the problem!
How can I solve it?!”

By focusing on solutions.
The problem seems impossible. So side-step it.

What you focus on expands.
Think about it.
Successful people focus on solutions.
Start saying, “The best possible solution is…” instead.

(Full confession: This used to be one of my top phrases.
I got rid of it.

The opportunities that have appeared in my life in the last 12 months
are absolutely unbelievable. Now I look only for SOLUTIONS.

2. “The reason why…”

Everyone has their own pet set of excuses.
What are yours?

Do you know your “reasons” define your life?

If Laura Hillenbrand could write “Seabiscuit” while
she was so ill with chronic fatigue she could barely crawl to her desk…

If Steve Jobs could start a computer company out of his garage…

If Nelson Mandela could – you get the picture.

Find out what your pet reasons are for not having more of
what you want.

Then watch how you stop yourself
by believing in them.

positive3. “I know that.”

These are three of the most dangerous words in the English language.

Maggie was a highly gifted speaker and coach.

But she was miserable grinding out speech after speech with
nothing to show for it- no clients, no fees.

She whined for years about how she “hated” speeches.

Not only did Maggie know exactly how to speak and sell from
the stage, she actually taught it to others. Successfully.

But in her mind, she “knew that” already, and it wouldn’t work.
Besides, her meeting planners “didn’t allow her to sell.”

One day Maggie was hit upside the head by a tough-talking coach
who dared her to follow her own formula at her next speech.

(Guess who that was?)

Just to prove the coach wrong, Maggie threw out her old speech,
and followed every single speak to sell technique she knew.

She closed 40% of the room.

Whaddya know, it worked.

Maggie realized that she’d been spending years with her head up
her butt, so invested in knowing that it wouldn’t work
that she never gave it a try.

What do you positively absolutely KNOW won’t work?

Bet you’re wrong.

4. “Impossible.”

Ellen wanted a business, but she had no idea how to start.

She was highly talented in a number of fields, but Ellen wanted
the freedom of her own business.

“It’s impossible!  I don’t know how to sell,” she said.
“I don’t know the first thing about how to begin.”

Ellen stewed in this bewildering swamp for a year.
The she bought a $29 program about how to sell.

She wrote an ad.

She was so swamped with calls – about 30 a week – that
she hid from the phone.

So she took a course on selling, and found out how
to sign up clients. She had a full client load in a month.

But she still wanted the dream of free time.

So she invested in a coach.

Together they outlined a dream cash-flow business
which would bring her $60K a year to start, while
she worked for less than 15 hours a month.

When she wanted to double that income, she
could hire another part-timer.

Today she is writing 3 hours a day and
building a business that gives her the freedom she craves.

Nothing is impossible but the limits you set.

Do you have to see before you believe?

Or can you believe until you see it come true?

Copyright © Ann Convery 2013

From Guest Blogger, Ann Convery: Want the Real Secrets of a Super Star? Ask Will Smith

FILM Smith 1Hi ,

Years ago, Will Smith was doing OK
as a rising TV star and movie actor.

But he was dead clear about his goal:
he wanted to be the biggest movie
star in the world.

So he and his manager studied
the 10 top-grossing movies of all time.

10 out of 10 had special effects.
9 out of 10 had special effects with creatures.
8 out of 10 had special effects with creatures and a love story.

They found the sweet spot in the market.

So they found a special effects script
with creatures and a love story.

Matthew Perry dropped out of
“Independence Day” at the last minute,
and Smith was in.

It was the highest grossing movie of 1996.

“Men in Black” didn’t do too badly either.

By age 44, Will Smith had accrued $4.4 Billion
in box office receipts.

What does this mean for you?

Will Smith’s success is no accident.
He studied the market and
made it happen.

Will Smith, and it might surprise you,
Elton John, Paul McCartney, and Mick Jagger
plotted their rise to the top.

If you want to go from where you are
to the top of your field, take this little test:

Have you actually studied your rise to the top?

Do you have a juicy, mouth-watering vision,
in living color, of what life will be like when you
get there?

Do you know what the sweet spot is
in your market?

Do you know what your market craves
and can’t get enough of?

Do you know what draws people to you and makes them
want you, you, you?

Do you know how to create that?

Think Will Smith. Bruce Willis. Tom Cruise.

Their star power is not an “accident of birth.”

Smith studied every actor, like Don Cheadle,
who came on “Fresh Prince” to learn the
secrets of what made them good.

Do you study the stars in your market
to see what makes them stand out?

Do you know how your market sees you now?

Do you know how to reposition
yourself for amazing success?

Do you have a mentor who can take
you there?

And by the way, you need that
juicy, mouth-watering vision from
the top right now.

Research proves that without a
crystal clear picture of your success,
you’ll never believe you can get there.

So you won’t have the motivation
to get going.

So you stay where you are.

Success is not fairy dust.

It’s more than hard work.

It’s a series of deliberate, planned, calculated,
shrewd moves.

If you answered “yes” to 8 out of
10 questions…

World – Stand back!

You’re on your way.

And..

There’s 1 spot left in the Private Accelerator
Program for entrepreneurs who are hell-bent
on reaching the top.

If this is you, and you’ve got butterflies
just thinking about it –
Good sign.

Send a quick email to annc@annconvery.com with “Ann, I’m interested” in the subject line.I
I’ll send you a one-page application so we can see if you’re a good fit for this high-octane ride.

Copyright © Ann Convery 2012

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Why Media Training Is No Longer About The Media

media training blogIt used to be that you received media training to prepare to be interviewed by the mainstream media.  Makes sense, right?  Before you’re interviewed by your local newspaper, or appear on 60 Minutes you want to get some idea of what to say.  But times have changed; now if you have a website, or use social media, you, my friend, are in the media.  You are in your own media world, like it or not.  So, in truth media training is no longer about the media, it’s now about your media.

Our media trainer, Ann Convery, has trained clients to be interviewed by such media as Time, Newsweek, 60 Minutes, CNN, The Wall Street Journal, The Oprah Winfrey Show, The New York Times, the BBC, Los Angeles Times, Vogue, People, Rolling Stone and countless other media outlets.  But now she’s also working with clients reviewing what they should say and how they should present themselves on their own videos, or how to communicate via social media.

So, to quickly answer the two pertinent questions

Do you need media training?  YES!

When?  NOW!

Media training teaches you how to communicate with your market, customers, prospects, influencers and, yes, the media.  It is no longer strictly for those of us in the PR or media relations realm

It is an invaluable experience and one that you need in order to successfully run your business whether you’re a producer, painter, author, or rocket scientist.

And if you decide to try and save a few bucks by giving up your search for a good media trainer and trying to do the session with your sister or hairdresser, don’t!  This is truly one of those cases where you don’t know what you don’t know.  Plus, what if the Today Show calls today wanting to book you on the show tomorrow morning?  Then you’ll be prepared, right?  And if they don’t call today, you’ll still be prepared to successfully communicate in your own media world.

Copyright © Anthony Mora 2013

 

Ann Convery’s Total Money Makeover Mastermind is Today, Wednesday, at 2:00pm PDT—-There is one Seat Left! Train’s leaving the Station! Don’t let the train leave without you!

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then, this Total Money Makeover Mastermind train is for you.  Jump aboard

And get ready to accelerate your sales and master your financial future.

The following is a guest blog by Ann Convery. Ann is offering an amazing free telecall tomorrow:

Don’t Talk About The Features Of Your Service — They Scare Away Your Prospects

By Ann Convery

So this is the deal…. let me tell you about Joanne. She’s one of the smartest people I know when it comes to grabbing people’s attention. She was a business strategist and a good copywriter, and she knew her stuff backwards and forwards. If she got into a private discussion with you she’d solve your problems like that. But when she got in front of a prospect, and there was a whiff of a sale in the air, (little laugh) she started babbling, and it was driving her nuts. She was watching people walk away. And she was at the point of abandoning her business, in fact her husband was pushing her to let it go, and find a job. And here=s how we turned it around for Joanne and this is the same thing that will turn it around for you.

Because Joanne was a great coach, she was a great teacher. And I know a lot of you are good teachers. And teachers tend to stay teach way before they should – like, talk about how great the features of their service or programs are to people they’ve just met.

And Joanne was scared of being salesy, so she retreated into her comfort zone, teaching. She’d say, I’m not only an MBA, I’m a certified NLP practitioner, so when I coach with people I’m able to get into what’s blocking them immediately, and remove the blocks so they go much faster. In fact we do that on the first session. And because I do laser-coaching on unconscious blocks, , my clients get a global vision of their business in the first session, blah blah blah blah blah blah… these are features.

Here Joanne was telling everyone she met how much she could give them, and there is nothing that turns off a prospect faster than features. And the biggest mistake people make is that they use adjectives to make their features sound really cool. Too many adjectives — can actually kill a sale. Joanne ended up several times in tears in the ladies’ room at networking events.

And she realized that all her emails were stuffed with features, which is why she had such a poor open rate. So we actually put a sign on her desk and in her purse that said “No Features.” The only thing she talked about was results. She said, “Clients come to me when their backs are against the wall. Like Tom. By the time he called me, they’d turned off his light bill and he hadn’t had a client in three months. 60 days later, he had 4 new clients, 6 good prospects, and his monthly income had gone from 0 to 16,000.”

She realized what most of us just don’t realize about features—and it sounds stupid, but they’re an addiction, and they’re dangerous. They’re so comfortable, especially for teachers. And they’re like a huge brick wall between you and the clients who really want to work with you. Why are they so dangerous? They’re dangerous because block feeling. 

When you talk about features, you’re asking your clients to think. And they do. But they don’t feel. And if your audience doesn’t feel, nothing happens. No sale happens, no signing happens. Nothing moves. And that’s why it’s so mysterious, that’s why it’s so painful, and that’s why you can’t put your finger on it. People keep asking you – “What do you do?” How do you do that?

And so you tell them. And it’s like handing chocolate to a chocoholic; the addiction kicks in.

“Ooooh, this feels so good, I’m talking about my best features. I’m talking about those degrees I worked so hard to get.” And they disappear. Your audience disappears. Features are such an innocent, tragic mistake that can keep you from thousands of dollars that are just outside your door, they’re waiting. And you’re turning them off.

And it doesn’t have to be that way. You don’t have to suffer and neither does your income. Just take the features out of your conversation, and out of most of your copy. And talk about your results instead.

Copyright © Ann Convery 2012

 
 

A Guest Post by Ann Convery: Can You Remember Why You Started Your Business?

Before the GO BIG! Online Telesummit ends, I wanted to let you TopStoryPR Readers/ Entrepreneurs/ Business Owners know about this really cool event still going the next 2 weeks.

You’re invited to the event of the season…

Join Lisa Cherney, Nancy Marmolejo, Carolyn Herfurth,  Michele PW and 34 others… (including me!)

At the GO BIG! Online Telesummit.

When: Monday, October 24th through Friday, November 4, 2011

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What you’ll receive: Rememberable “ah-ha” takeaways, step-by-step same day action how-to’s,  access to bonuses galore.

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Join 38 Unique Global Experts as they Reveal  Cutting-Edge Systems so YOU Can Go Big & Enjoy  the Reason You Started Your Business in the First Place.

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These experts are the absolute BEST in their industries, and they are just as committed as I am to helping you spread your message and grow your business!

See you there!

Ann

Copyright © Ann Convery 2011

From Guest Blogger, Ann Convery: How to Be The Answer to Your Client’s Prayer


Elizabeth was an expert teacher and healer.

Potential clients saw her as a great help.

Elizabeth wanted future clients to see her, 
not as “great help,” but as  essential to their well-being.
But clients often don’t see you as essential 
unless you directly impact the bottom line.

“How can I stop being seen as the “help” – as in 
“I help men and women heal from cancer and chronic illness?”

Elizabeth sighed.  “People just don’t get what I do!”

If you provide a service where money is not the bottom line,
 how do you position yourself as a Trusted Advisor?
Or maybe even… the answer to their prayers?

You let your future clients know within the first
 two minutes that you impact their emotional or physical
 bottom line.

Their what?!

We all have several bottom lines.

If you need to lose weight, you’re very clear on
 your physical bottom line – it’s about 20 lbs lighter.

If you want to find your soul mate, you’re very clear on
your emotional bottom line – it’s called “Happily Ever After.”

If you are critically or chronically ill, you’re very clear
 on your health bottom line – it’s pain-free long life.

The closer you are to your client’s personal 
bottom line, the more valuable you are to them.

Here’s how Susan, Jackie, and Jeff, all experts in their field, were presenting themselves:

SUSAN SAYS:  “I help my clients lose weight and get in the best shape of their lives.”

YOU THINK:     “Go away so I can sneak another Danish.”

JACKIE SAYS:  “I help women find the relationship of their dreams.”

YOU THINK:     “Gosh, I’ve never heard that one before.”

JEFF SAYS:      “I help my clients heal from cancer and chronic illness.”

YOU THINK :    “Great.  You’re probably too ‘New Age’ for me.”

The problem for Susan, Jackie and Jeff was…

  1. Potential clients didn’t see their expertise as critical to their lives.
  2.  They gave their audience no clue that they were the answer to a client’s prayer.
  3.  They were therefore perceived as “Helpful” service providers.
  4.   All three experts even used the verb – “I help.”

Here’s how Susan, Jackie and Jeff repositioned themselves as
 Trusted Advisors, or, the answer to a client’s prayer:

SUSAN:  “I just worked with Jennifer, who went from a size 10 to a 4.  
The new man in her life asked her if she was a model.  95% of my 
clients achieve their ideal weight in 6 to 18 months.”

JACKIE: “85% of my clients are in a committed relationship in 12 months.  
I’m invited to so many weddings I can’t go to them all.”

JEFF:    “When I met Joan, the doctors had given up on her.  She was too 
weak to get out of bed.  1 month later she was walking.  12 months later 
she opened her own business, and now she’s training for her first marathon.”

When your clients look at you…
do they see a Helper?  Or the answer to their prayers?

You either add to their personal bottom line, or you don’t.
That’s how clients see it.

So if you want to be seen as a Trusted Advisor…
(and I’ve never met a professional who didn’t)
let your potential clients know within the first two minutes 
how you add to their personal bottom line.

Don’t be one of the crowd.

Be the answer to their prayer.
 Try it!  It works!

Copyright © Ann Convery 2011

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